I seem to get one quite often, at least one every couple of years, sometimes more.
No wonder I’m so looney:)
I have another one now, well hopefully on the mend from another one,
I have always been an extremely clumsy person, even as a child.
There have been times, I seem to just trip and fall over nothing but air, but oh well.
I’ve been this way for 53 plus years, so I don’t expect it to change now.
When I was a kid, my goodness, I would trip over the floor vent, the same old rock on the school play yard, the grass outside, just anything, a lot of times just my own two feet.
No, they are not gigantic, they are a very normal size 8, they just get in the way sometimes.
My family has said I need a helmet and knee and elbow pads, more times than one, or just a gigantic bubble that won’t bust when I fall.
But truth be known, something would go wrong, it just does.
God gave me a lot of great gifts, but walking upright with grace just wasn’t one of them.
What caused this latest concussion, getting in my car.
Yeah, I know, your thinking what, but yes getting in my car.
I went to Wally World, that’s Walmart for those of you that ain’t country.
I had ordered my groceries for pickup, yes I use pickup service at Walmart.
It’s so easy, I know exactly what I’m getting, I set a time that’s convenient for me to pick it up.
No crowds, no noise, no long hours wandering through the store throwing extra things in the buggy that I don’t even need.
It’s so simple, I absolutely love it, Hubby says I’m getting lazy. But oh well.
I think I’m being a savvy shopper. I plan it out, pick exactly what I want, know the exact total, pay for it online, and just pick it up.
But anyway, back to the crazy concussion.
It was Tuesday, got off work, swung by to pick up the groceries, all was well.
Got out to talk to the person as he put them in the car, because well, us Southerners believe in being friendly to everybody.
I sure ain’t about to just sit in my car like some stuck up snob, that’s just plain rude, even though I see a lot of people do it.
I mean really, they shopped for you, bagged it and brought it out to your car and loaded it, the least you can do is get out and talk with them and say thank you.
Oops, sidetracked again, the brain is still scrambled, big time.
All was well, thanked the young man, he started going back in, I proceeded to get in my car.
Well, either I grew in 10 minutes or the car shrunk.
I knocked the living daylights out of my head, even the little guy heard it and stopped and came back to check on me.
I told him it would be okay, I was just going to sit there a minute.
No blood, just a whammy of a headache, tons of stars circling, dizzy, and very blurred vision.
I waited til the stars subsided some, called my daughter told her what happened, and asked her to stay on the phone with me till I got home.
Oh my goodness, it hurt, still does.
This was on Tuesday, it is now the weekend, and it still hurts really bad.
But at least the nausea has finally gone away after four days, dizziness is some better, don’t see two of everything anymore, its all just really blurry.
I have rested non-stop since then, I’ve been to the doctor enough times through the years to know, quite dark room, and just be still and let your brain, get back to normal instead of the scrambled eggs it has become.
Goodness, I’ve been in pajamas since it happened, yes I shower and change clothes each day, but its been pjs all week, and probably all weekend too.
Still, can’t see well enough to read my Bible, but thank the Lord, God gave somebody the wisdom to make Alexa.
She does my reading for me everyday.
I love that little machine, it can tell you so many things, its really cool.
But you know what, it will be okay, God has got it, just like He has everything else that goes on in my life.
The moral of this story, pay attention and don’t be in such a hurry, it might just save you from a whammy of a headache.
Important note, if you ever do get a concussion, go see a doctor, just to make sure you didn’t do more than scramble your brain!!
Pain, doctors, pills, side effects, often addiction, worse yet overdose, death.
We live insuch a time of pain pill addictions.
It’s so very sad, that something that was made to help a person with true aches and pains, has turned into a major epidemic where people are pill addicts and overdose victims.
From a personal standpoint, I can tell you they are very dangerous.
In some cases, when taken for a very short period of time, per doctors orders; they can leave you with side effects, sometimes serious.
Side effects that you may be forced to live with from now on.
I tell you that from actual personal experience, I was prescribed Dilaudid three times a day, for seven days after jaw surgery.
I could not function, all I did was sleep except when hubby woke me up for a boost to drink and more medicine.
When I finally finished it, and I finally could stay awake, slowly got my brain out of a weeklong fog, got the limbs working again, I thought to myself ok, ” I survived the surgery and the hardest part of recovery.”
But would you like to know a secret?
My problems were just beginning!
My entire body woke up, except for my stomach and digestive system.
The Dilaudid had paralyzed my digestive system.
It took a few years, several doctors, test after test, trial medications, and finally several trips to the Mayo Clinic in Florida, and even more tests, bunches of them, till I finally got a definitive answer and diagnosis.
What was the diagnosis?
Severe gastroparesis due to the Dilaudid prescription that was prescribed in 2012, some four years earlier.
Prognosis, basically my body could not process food as my digestive system should. Plan of care, boost and ensure and such drinks, at least six per day, lots of water, Benefiber and peppermint herbal tea, no food.
For how long you wonder? The rest of my life; all because of a week of strong pain pills.
I have finally started getting used to it, I stick to my medical plan of care, eat some real food on Saturdays only, and then suffer in ways you can’t imagine til Wednesday when I medically treat it.
Week in, week out, this month, next month, next year, for the rest of my life.
But it’s hard, everywhere you look there is food. Restaurants, billboards, magazines, television, movies, family get-togethers, Holidays, cookouts, Church socials, even grocery shopping.
All of it is a never-ending reminder of the agony of pain pills effects on my system.
I try so hard to act like it doesn’t bother me when everybody else is eating, and I’m drinking a protein drink.
But it does, oh how it does.
I am 53 years old, I was in my mid 40’s when all this started, ensure and boost is for seriously sick Seniors, not a woman in her fifties.
Truthfully the whole situation just stinks, all because of pain pills.
People, please listen to me.
Pain pills are ever so dangerous, the side effects, the fact that your body gets immune to them, and the pain gets worse, so you go back for higher doses again and again.
I don’t want anybody to ever go through what I do, and it can be avoided by just staying away from pain pills.
Most all of us have aches and pains, but use a muscle rub, ice, heat, massage, icy hot, aspercreme, bio freeze, the lists are endless, anything but pain pills.
Folks, please don’t become another statistic, don’t get so hooked on them that you become an opioid addict.
You’re worth more than that! Your loved ones, family and friends care and love you dearly!
I’ve known so many people that have gotten seriously ill and some actually died from opioids.
Some I think were by accident, simply took too many, but some were planned and deliberate.
Don’t do that to your family and friends, not today, not tomorrow, not ever.
I’ve seen loved ones hooked on pills, stressing because they need their next ‘fix”. Going to great lengths and stupid stunts to get it.
You can not start to imagine how much your addiction hurts your family and friends who love you!
LISTEN TO ME, if you’re sitting there thinking, “Oh you’re wrong, my family and or my friends do itwithme, it’s cool, it’s what everybody does.”
Listen and please listen good. They areNOTyourfriends.
True friends want the best for you, and pain pills are anything but the best for you.
They destroy your body, you can become addicted, and keep wanting more and more, till one day you possibly overdose, and maybe, just maybe, somebody will find you in time, to get you medical help, maybe.
To visit you in a hospital is one thing, but to have to visit you in a cemetery is the worst thing ever.
You’re precious, you’re wanted and you’re loved by so many!
Don’t destroy your life and the life of your friends and loved ones because of stupid pain pills!
Don’t cause your loved ones to have to visit you in the cemetery with so many unanswered questions, the biggest one.
“Why did you do this?”
“Why didn’t you leave the pills alone?”
“Why didn’t you care enough to stop what you were doing to yourself?”
“Why didn’t you come to us for help?”
“Why didn’t you love us enough to stop?”
“What do I tell our children when they ask why you had to die?”
“Why were you so selfish, that you didn’t care enough to leave the stupid pills alone?”
“Why did you leave me?”
“I love you, I need you, I so want you back here with me.”
That’s okay, I didn’t have a clue either til a few years ago.
Heres my story:
I decided to get braces and had to have jaw surgery during the process. All of that was fine, but the second jaw surgery was a mistake. It wasn’t a mistake that I had it, it was a mistake of the timing and the drugs prescribed for the pain afterward. I knew that morning there was a very uneasy feeling even as I sat in the chair as the doctor came in, but I didn’t follow that uneasy feeling and stop and reschedule, and I have regretted it ever since.
Please don’t get me wrong, he’s a good doctor it wasn’t the surgery, it was the pills he prescribed for the pain after the surgery. Even when we got to the pharmacy they were concerned, it just wasn’t prescribed much anymore. Dilaudid, four times a day. HUGE BIG MISTAKE!!!!
I basically stayed asleep for all seven days except when hubby would wake me up for protein and more medicine. I guess the purpose of it was to keep me sedated while the worst part of the pain passed. The medicine did its job but the cost of it was great. I don’t mean the cash cost, the price I had to pay afterward, the damage it did to my body, the damage that can never be cured….. gastroparesis.
It took a lot of doctor visits, tests, specialists and finally a few trips to the Mayo Clinic in Florida to find out what was wrong. I had every test there was for a gi problem, and let me tell you, some of them were anything but pleasant. But at last, thanks to a very intelligent caring GI Specialist named Dr. Wang, I had an answer.
There were even more tests, and the final one, radioactive nuclear testing. It was an interesting and tiring and painful day at the Mayo Clinic that day. At least I made a friend and she and I just spent the day together after eating radioactive eggs, and wondering the halls for hours and then keep returning for pictures every few hours, and for me the next three days. We would just walk around with our hands on our stomachs like we were pregnant, at least it brought smiles from others instead of strange looks.
So what does it do to your life? your body? The answer is simple, it means your stomach is not working, paralyzed, dead nerve. Things just don’t digest, and your entire gastro system is affected.
Some people just have a mild case, that can still eat and enjoy life; others moderate that do okay at times, and other times painful flare-ups, and then there is the severe type. That’s when life changes completely as you know it.
Food the thing that is meant to keep your body healthy is basically a painful poison to your body’s gastro system. You eat some type of food, any type of food and it just sits in there, for my body way too long; causing nausea, indigestion, abdominal swelling, sometimes vomiting, among other things, and enough pain to make you want to scream.
Does it go away in an hour or two, no try a few days later when your stomach is treated. So what do I eat, you wonder? I basically don’t. It’s down now to where it is liquids the majority of the time. Protein drinks, not the ones kids love today; its the ones like boost and ensure; and several of them a day, herbal teas, peppermint oil tea, and lots and lots of water.
I used to hate this routine, it was a very low dark time for quite some time. But after a few years I finally have a routine, doctor approved. Proteins, and liquids (Coffee, tea, water) for six days a week. I eat what I want on Saturday, deal with the pain, GERD, indigestion, nausea and bloating and immense pain til Wednesday morning. And then I treat it with prescription medicine and proceed. Each week of every month; every month of every year.
Do I rebel sometimes and eat on days other than Saturdays? Yes. And I regret it immediately, but sometimes the hunger just gets overwhelming, and at times you get to where you’re so weak you can’t go on, without a bite of solid food and tired, oh my, I’m always tired, always. But each time, I eat like that I regret it horribly, even though I needed it, because of the pain, GERD, bloating, indigestion and on and on, it is unbearable.
What’s really hard, people being normal and eating with you in the same room, or Holidays, you want to eat at family gatherings, but you know if you do, it’s going to bring unavoidable consequences. And I struggle with what to do, so do I just drink some tea, and avoid the food, and physically be okay; or give in to all the smells and eat and suffer for hours and days?
It really is a horrible disease. And the majority of people around you can not start to understand how you feel, physically, mentally or emotionally. It’s not a visible paralysis of a limb, a person cant see a paralyzed stomach so they just don’t and can’t understand.
This blog isn’t for any of you to say bless you, or have pity or anything else.
I wrote this very personal story so that others can understand that pain pills can be very dangerous, even when prescribed by your doctor for just a short time. Please, people, be careful, with what you take, and what you do. And if you have this disease don’t give up, life is still worth living, yes there are changes to be made, but you can adapt to anything if you put your mind to it.
For those of you with a loved one that suffers from this, please try to be understanding and supportive. It’s really hard to accept and deal with. There is no cure, only learning what works for each individual and doing your best to take care of yourself. So folks, please do all you can to help your loved one adapt to this new way of eating or not eating whatever the case may be, they need your support, love, and understanding.
And for those of you with such symptoms, search and find a doctor that is knowledgeable and compassionate that can and will help you.
You can and will get used to this in time, and accept it for what it is.
You can and will get through this.
Because your a strong-willed person and life is meant to be enjoyed, no matter what your circumstances.
Part 2 of the previous blog……. Living with Epilepsy!
Your Loved Ones and Epilepsy!
I have thought a lot about this post. I don’t just sit down and type a bunch of words on a screen to make a published blog.
You see, I simply depend on prayer and Divine intervention. This topic was presented to me in my quiet time one morning, and so I have been pondering over what to say ever since.
I find this blog is hard to write because it hits close to home, my own life, my own family, co-workers, and friends.
So this is another sentimental one just like the previous one… Living with Epilepsy.
My prayer is that it will help at least one person, to me, then it will have been worth it.
I don’t know how many of you have read the previous blog… Living with Epilepsy! But if you or someone that you knowhasbeen or is affected by this disease; I sincerely pray that you will read it and pass it on to others!
I want to remind each of you as you read this, that every word is simply from my own life. Everybody is different, so please study, ask questions,talk with your doctor and familyto know what is best for you.
Epilepsy is such a misunderstood disease. But please remember as I said before…..
You or your loved one simply has epilepsy, but epilepsy does not have you!
That is so very important to remember!!!
Let’s get started, shall we?
I remember the fear on my husbands face, the questions that he had that firstmorning when I woke up from that very first seizure. His face spoke volumes, it was written all over it. I was 19, with a toddler and a baby; neither of us had a clue what happened and we both were terrified.
There were so many questions, so many things neither of us understood.It’snormal though. I remember at the doctors’ office we had so many questions. He listened so intently. He wanted to know how to help me just as much as Iwanted to know myself.
I’m sure it was really hard on him. He worked away from home as a truck driver, so he had to trust that others would help when he was away. I remember him calling often just to make sure that I was okay, and had not had any. He would always ask…“Did you take your medicine?” or “You’re not drivingareyou?” or “Any more seizures?” There was always a lot of concerned questions.
It’s really hard on a spouse when they watch their mate with this disease. I heard so many times, how helpless he felt because he did not know what to doduring one to make it stop.
I have heard that phrase from so many in my lifetime…. the feeling of being helpless.
But the truth is, there is nothing anybody can do during one to make it stop. You simply have to make sure there is nothing near them that can cause harm, turn them on their side gently, and be there for them afterward.
I think in listening to my spouse then and my spouse now….. the biggest thingfor each of them was and is…
The helpless feeling….. helpless to prevent it, helpless to stop it once it starts, helpless to make it better….. the agony of watching your spouse gurgle, shake, vomit, cry, knowing you can not take it away.
Watching as mere seconds seem like forever, praying for the monster to stop hurting the one you love.
I truly feel for spouses everywhere, I really do.
Take the time to reassure your loved one that you’re glad they are there, that together you can face this and get through it each and every day!
And thank them for being there by your side on the good days and the bad!!
But which of your loved ones, do I think it affects the most?
This part is going to break my heart to write. So please just try to be understanding. Thechildren………….. my children……… your children!!!!
Our children did not know what was going on for a while. They were just too young,thank the Lord. My Mom would come over and stay with us for a few hours after I woke with one, and I’m sure when they were so young; the kids probably just thought Mammaw was coming to visit and play with them.
BUT……. time changed all that, sadly!
Time passed and they realized something was wrong with Mommy. I always had the seizures at night, so at least they did not see me during an actual episode for a long time. Truthfully, I don’t remember if they ever actually saw me in the midst of one.
That is one bad side effect of epilepsy, it takes away pieces of your memory.
But I do remember how sad they felt when Mommy woke not feeling well. How scared they felt when it was just me and them at home day and nights while their Daddy was on the road and I was struggling with this.
I remember how traumatized they wereas4 and 5-year-olds when Mommy would get sick, or they could not wake me, because I did have a seizure and was in that deep sleep stage afterward.
I remember all the questions they would ask sometimes. “Mommy why are you sick?” or “Mommy what’s wrong?” or “Mommy are you going to die?”
I remember teaching them at a very early age how to call Mammaw on speed dial. Epilepsy so affected my children in such sad horrible ways, especially my son, he was the oldest and I’m sure remembered the most at that age.
There are 18 months between my children, so I know he remembered much more during the early days than his younger sister did.
Can I give all of you as a parent some wise advice?
Please do NOT ever ever ever tell your child that He is the man or woman of the house while Daddy or Mommy is gone, so be a big boy or big girl and take care of your Mommy or Daddy and sister, brother. You get the idea! Don’t do it, EVER!!!!!
PLEASE DO NOT EVER PUT THAT BURDEN ON YOUR CHILD, NEITHER SON OR DAUGHTER. THEY ARE NOT MEANT TO BE THE CARETAKER, THEY ARE CHILDREN. LET THEM BE KIDS AND PLAY AND LET THE ADULTS WORRY ABOUT THE BIG THINGS.
It will so make your child’s life better and more carefree. Our son had to see a counselor at the age of six. He felt as if he had let his Daddy and Mommy and sister down because he could not make Mommy better when she was sick.
Please never do that to your child!!!
How do you help your child to begin with? Talk with them in terms theycan understand. Assure them that yes Mommy or Daddy or the sister or brother may get sick sometimes, and drop and shake and be sick and sleepy for a while after, but theywill be okay.
Assure them of that, make sure they know that it is not their fault. It is simply something that happens sometimes, but they will be okay.
My daughter reminded me today of when she had to call a dear friend of mine as achild when I had a seizure. Or the time as an adult when my current husband calledher to come help because I had such a bad one that terrified him; how worried she stillgets over them.
How we both have agreed when times come that I feel bad,I don’t get out with thegrandkids, or they don’t visit because she and I both want to protect them from that fear of them seeing Nana having a seizure or even the after effects of it.
Children are the ones that break my heart, whether they are 5, 15 or 25.
Epilepsy affects not just the person that has the disease, or the spouse, or the children whether they be young or adults. But it also affects the parents, siblings and other family members.
I can’t tell you how many times in thirty years my parents have called just to check on me, how many times my Mom and first Mother in law have come to visit while the kids were little to just help, watch over them and keep an eye on me.
How many times my brother has just listened to me talk and cry when the seizures were active and I was having a hard time. How many hugs I have got from him.
All your family members that are close to you are affected by epilepsy. Take the time to thank them for being there for you.
As a parent, you hate to see your children be sick or hurt at any age. My kids are in their thirties now, and to me, it has not changed at all, they are still my kids, my babies. When your children hurt, you hurt, you want to make it better, and with a lot of things, you are just unable to do so.
That’s hard for them. So be sure to give your loved ones a hug and say thank you!!
Who else does epilepsy affect? Your friends, your Church family, your coworkers.
Remember to talk to them if you spend much time with them, and your seizures are active. I promise it is startling to them if you suddenly have a seizure and they are unaware that you even have epilepsy.
I know from experience……
Church one Sunday morning, felt great, 5 minutes later I excuse myself, and some of the ladies find me laying on the bathroom floor in a seizure. Thank the Lord one lady was a nurse, and one of my dearest friends was there, that already knew about them.
Or the coworker the time I had one on the job. All was well, fast forward a bit later, and I find myself on a cot surrounded by people after a seizure. Yes, they knew I had epilepsy, but I had not had one in quite some time, so it took me by surprise.
But I will never forget the next day when one of my coworkers came up to me and asked me ” Are you okay? Please do not ever look at me that way again, ever. It was so frightening with that look, I will never forget that. It scared me.” To this day I feel bad for her. Lord knows, I did not do it intentionally, did not even know that I had looked at her that way, oh how I still feel for her. I never meant to scare anybody. But I have learned since then that the look you sometimes have on your face before a seizure is extremely frightening to those that witness it.
So you see, you are not the only one affected by epilepsy. It affects everybody thatknows you closely. Your spouse, children, parents, siblings, Church family,friends, coworkers, and on and on.
Take the time to let them know that if one should happen you will be okay, it will pass in time. Explain to them to simply move things from around you, call 911 if it does not stop soon, and just be there for you when you get past it.
But it will be okay!!!
Remember you simply have epilepsy, but epilepsy does not have you.
Your life is still important, you are a wonderful person.
You can manage this with the care of your doctor, taking preventive measures to help yourself, and being faithful in taking your medicines.
So what if we have times whenwe lose a few minutes, it does pass in time. So what if we take enough medicine to fill a bathtub, or have enough blood taken to make our armsfeel like a pin cushion, or can’t drive for a while, or have other restrictions.
It is not forever, we all do get used to it in some ways, but most importantly we all can accept it as simply part of our lives and help our loved ones to be more at ease too. When they see you dealing with it in a positive way, they are more apt to deal with it better also.
So live your life, have fun, laugh, enjoy it, make memories and simply take care of you.
Because you and your family and loved ones are so very much worth it!!!!!!!
I don’t think this site would be complete; without stories from my own life. Today that topic is EPILEPSY……
This one is a tough subject for me, I rarely talk about it, but I feel it’s an important topic that should be discussed. You see I have had this disease since I was a very young adult… I have thought long and hard about this particular blog.
Almost didn’t write it….
But then I got to thinking if I can only help one person to understand they are not alone, or one family member to rest a little easier…… well then, opening myself up and really talking will be worth it..
Let’s get started with my story….. shall we?
I still remember the first time I ever had a seizure.….. I was 19 years old and a young mother of two children. I remember waking up with this absolute horrible headache, a bit tongue, a wet bed, hurting all over, disoriented and scared to death. It had never happened before….
I didn’t even know what it was, neither of us did. I had never ever experienced such a horrible thing…. I don’t mind telling you…. I WAS TERRIFIED!!!!!!
We called the doctor and was seen right away. My husband and I explained how I felt when I woke that morning, they examined me, took blood work, and prescribed the first of many different medicines that I would take through my life.
They also sent me to a neurologist and there I had the first of many EEG tests done, that came back normal, by the way. I have learned over the years that sometimes tests are normal even though epilepsy is a part of your life.
I did not know what to do, how to feel. But I can tell you this much…. I felt scared, confused and like my life was over. How could I have epilepsy? What about my small children I have? How will life be now?
There were so many adjustments to make… For me, the biggest one was I could not drive for a while…
You see I have always been a woman that loved to get out and go and be independent it felt like the most horrible, cruel thing in the world you could do to me.
Take away my driving.
I was angry….
Angry that this was happening to me…
Angry that I could not drive….
Angry that people were watching overme….
I felt like people did not understand me anymore,
They did not know how to act around me, were scared if you will.
What if I had one with them there?
People are afraid of change, the unknown…. It’s just human nature.
I was angry over so many things.
But I think that is normal…. and I can tell you it does pass intime….
After a while, I learned to accept epilepsy……….
the medicines, being careful, watching for signs, avoiding things that could triggerthem…..
The flashing lights, not eating, not enough sleep, too much stress, getting too hot.
There are a lot of triggers, but avoiding them as best you can so help.
But I learned to accept epilepsy as a new part of me and was okay with it.
I didn’t have another one, for a couple of weeks.…
But when I did… it was the exact same way as the first one…
But I was so tired afterward, and so very sick. I remember “tossing my cookies” so many times that day and sleeping a bunch. My mom came over and stayed with me and the children, and I just slept.
In time, I learned that the exhaustion is just part of it…………. It was rough, and this is going to sound stupid…
But I was thankful that at least it was while I was sleeping; at least my children did not witness it…
Time passed, and the seizures were still a huge part of my life.
But LISTEN………….. this sentence is so IMPORTANT…….
IT DID NOT STOP ME FROM LIVING……..
EPILEPSY IS NOT A DEATH SENTENCE ……….
LIFE DOES GO ON!!!!
So what, our brain gets all confused and acts like fireworks exploding up there sometimes….
So what that we lose a little bit of time here and there…
So what if we spend a day sleeping and sore.
So what that we see a doctor till we’re sick of them,
So what if we have blood tests till we feel like a pin cushion,
So what if we take enough pills to fill a bathtub.
LIFE DOES GO ON!!!!!
I promise it has been 30 plus years since I was diagnosed….
So see life really does go on…..
Always remember that!!!!
As you adjust to this thing called epilepsy….. you learn how to take better care of yourself…
You learn to eat right……………. get enough sleep.……………….. avoid being up all hours of the night…………. avoid the flashinglights……………. avoid watching tv in a dark room…………. avoid getting too hot………… avoid unnecessary stress.
So see in some ways, you learn to help all of it, by taking better care of yourself….
and we all need to do that…. illness or not!!
You learn a lot about yourself, and ways you can help to make it better……
What works best for you????
You know your body better than anybody…. so LISTEN to it…..
Does all this stop them???
No……….but taking care of yourself can prevent a bunch of them…….
and taking your medicine faithfully, that is important!
I know from experience about taking your medications.
I got to a point where I was tired of taking them…
So I woke up one morning and made the horrible choice not to take them that day, or the next, or the next.
I so REGRETTED it… I had a HORRIBLE HUGE SEIZURE… HORRIBLE!!!
It was actually so bad, I bit an actual hole through my tongue, and had to be treated for that on top of the seizure.
Please…………. DO NOT EVER TAKE YOURSELF OFF YOUR MEDICINES…….
PLEASE…… NOT EVER!!!!
I understand the feeling of getting tired of it all, I truly do.
But stupid choices hurt you, and in turn, the ones that care about you.
I have had times where I have had 100 plus seizures in one years time, to some years without a single one…
What changes it? Well, I’m not sure.
I do know the better I care for myself the less they are.
So try that, okay…
I was actually able to come off medicines in 2006, per the neurologist after I was seizure free for an entire year.
I was ecstatic!!!
I went seizure free for three years straight, no medicines, no anything….
I just knew they were a thing of my past, even took my medic alert bracelet off.
I felt great…all was well!!!
But then…. well, in 2009, I got injured with my head hitting a concrete floor.
That started them back right away, actually while laying on that floor, waiting on the ambulance, and again in the ambulance.
Yes, it meant starting over as I did in the beginning when I was 19, but I kept telling myself……
It will be okay, I was seizure free in the past and I will be again…
I think a positive attitude is important!!!!
Yes, there were a ton more tests, the doctor visits, the not driving, and all the other precautions for a long time.
But I knew it was for mybest and handled that part of it much better the second time around.
They stopped after a few months, thank the Lord!!!
And once again, I was released by the doctor of all medicines, I just had to keep in contact with her.
I was ecstatic once again!!!!
Oh Happy Day!!!
But…… they came back again, in 2015.
I know you’re probably wondering why this time.
Well, I have a neck injury from the concrete floor fall.
The doctors have tried to treat it, and they ordered neck traction.
I had a really uncomfortable feeling about having it, but I just figured I was scared of the unknown.
You know, how we as people are scared of change and new things.
Well, I thought that was it, I was just dreading the unknown….
This does not really pertain to this topic.
But can I give you a moment of free advice?
If you ever feel like something is amiss, or your really uncomfortable about something.
PLEASE…. LISTEN TO THAT NUDGING……..
STOP WHAT YOU ARE DOING, OR ABOUT TO DO…..
LISTEN TO THAT INNER VOICE!!!
It will save you a tremendous amount of grief. At least, that has been my experience…
Okay……back to the story.
I had a horrible sense of apprehension as I walked in, but as I said, I figured it was just fear of the unknown.
Y’all can imagine what I’m going to say next.
They started the traction and about halfway through it, I had a seizure….. first one in six years!!!!
I was heartbroken. I had gone so long without any; how could this be happening again?
But they were simply just trying to help… I realize that nobody there could have known it was going to wake the seizure monster again…
But oh,….. it did. And this time a real monster!!!!
Everything changed… more doctors, more tests, more lab work, more medicines….. and more restrictions than ever.….
Why do you ask?
The patterns had changed….. now for the first time in my life, they were happening at night….. but now also in the day.
It really changed my life this time. They were uncontrollable for a long time.
I actually gave up driving for almost two years this time. And even today, I still have restrictions.
Can I be honest and tell you something?
I got mad, really mad…
I got depressed big time…
I really had a hard time with the epilepsy monster being woke back up again this time.
It almost got me down, way down.
The neck injury has changed me in a lot of ways, and not for the better.
The biggest thing now is that it affects my mind.
Ican’t remember like I did, can’t do the cognitive thinking as I once did.
I don’t do well with loud noises and lights etc.
And the memory, well it’s slipping fast.
Please do NOT think all of this is from the seizures, it is NOT!
It is all more from the severely injured neck and other health issues…
But you know what?
I’m still me, I’m a person that simply has some health issues and epilepsy…..
But epilepsy does not have me, it does not define me.
The seizures have become almost nonexistent again.
I have only had one day of bad ones, and it was from an injury in the kitchen.
Word of advice…. never sneeze while using sharp objects in the kitchen.
It might save the edges of your fingers.
So life, as far as epilepsy is concerned is getting better all the time.
I’m even considering talking to the doctor about tapering off the medicine again.
Perhaps this time there will not be any more injuries, and I know there will never, ever be neck traction again, ever.
And even though I may not be able to think like I did, and some things are different…….well, that’s okay too.
Because it all still comes down to attitude.
Epilepsy is not a death sentence. Nor is the damage from the seizures.
Sure there are good days and bad days, but those good ones make the bad ones tolerable.
Life goes on, I’m still me, your still you…..
Were both still here and life is soooooo worth living…
Remember you are a wonderful person, that just simply has epilepsy…
Life is worth living, life can be really great…. don’t ever let it get you down.
A healthy attitude, good lifestyle choices, and precautions can make a world of difference in your life.
Remember you are not alone, and the more you learn, the less scary it is.
Knowledge is power……. So learn all you can.
But most important of all,
TAKE CARE OF YOU!!!!
YOU ARE SO WORTH IT!!!!!
to be continued…… part two: Your loved ones and epilepsy!!!